Monday, May 6, 2013

How? How? How? How Do I Manifest What I Want?

The big question that I get all the time…..I’ll repeat that……that I get all the time.


How do I get more money?

How do I get my perfect relationship?

How do I boom my business?

How? How? How?

And the answer is very unsatisfying to most of you because it just seems too simple after all the work you think you've done.

You ask.

Yep, that is it. You ask.

As a matter of fact, you are continually "asking".

You cannot help it.

You are "asking" every moment by the vibrational frequency you are emitting.

Some times you direct your asking with words and such (or think you do), but it is really your dominant vibration that is the frequency going out into the Universe and attracting back to you everything.

What affects your dominant vibration?

Your thoughts, the things you talk about, where you put your attention most of the time, the people you surround yourself with, your environment but mostly it is just how you feel.

Therefore, the most important thing you can do to have the life you want is to find out where you are on the Emotional Guidance Scale and to find ways to feel better thus raising your vibration.

Gratitude is one tool that is great for doing this.

As for other tools and processes to help you do that…..there are thousands.

In the personal coaching I do with people, I laser focus some techniques that get fast results.

In general, here are some more suggestions:  visualize it, listen to music that makes you joyful, write it down, journal daily, make and look at a vision board, basically do things that make you happy and also focus your attention deliberately onto what you are wanting.

Try those things or find other tools that help you to be in alignment with your bliss and joy.

The only reason you want anything different anyway is because you think that in the having of it, you will be happier.

So just be happier and thus you will be in the vibrational alignment with that which you want to attract and thus will attract it.


Follow your bliss.

Right now, take some time and feel a bit better about anything.

You never get it wrong because you never get it done.

I wish you all the best!

Kathy Hadley

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  1. I love this Kathy. It seems that a lot of people have trouble moving forward if they don't know the how, but the how will become visible as we go along, just go with it, feel it. Thanks for the post :)

    1. Nicola,

      True. I generally tell them as they become clients, don't keep asking how, that won't get you anywhere. The mind loves to answer questions but "how" questions just cause a confusion.

      A better question, in alignment with what you said about moving forward, is what am I to do next to get what I want.

      And of course, that is best asked once you have raised your vibration so that you would even attract good things to you in the first place.


      Thanks for commenting.


  2. Ask- and it shall be given. Visualize it and make it come true! Whoo woo!

    1. Thanks Denys. So long as you stay in alignment with what is wanted and so allow yourself to receive it.


  3. I use "seek joy, y'all" as my personal motto. It's how I live because it's saved my life. Big statement, but so true. Great post.

    1. Wow! Good! We all will be certain and continue on the path of whatever has worked for us. It is that certainty of belief that causes it to be.

      Keep up the great work!


  4. Thank goodness that I was born HAPPY!! I'm just happy all the time!! But I did download your Simple Law of Attraction Kit that comes with your short e-book and audio and I just thought that was GREAT!! That even made happier than I already am and that's pretty darn HAPPY!! :) :)
    Healthy Blessings,

    1. Gena,

      I pretty much happy all the time, too. I was just born that way. Most things that have gotten me down in the past have never stuck with me too long.

      I'm glad you liked my basic course.

      I am really of the opinion that the basic Simple course with the Advanced Course, applied to all areas of ones life could pretty much take care of everything. Some people need a little direction and that is why I added the special coaching add on that is a real deal.