Often times, their logical thinking mind will have to find a reason for doing so, especially if you have helped them or they really admired you.
In doing this, they may find fault with you.
This is where you must learn to allow.
If your life is continuing to improve and good things are happening for you that are doing no harm to anyone, that is how you know you are on the right path, so do not shift what you are doing.
Instead allow them to fade away. It can be challenging but is required if you want to continue having the life you want.
This writing from Mother Teresa helps me when that happens. Maybe it can help you, too.
People are often unreasonable and self-centered.
Forgive them anyway.
If you are kind, people may accuse you of ulterior motives.
Be kind anyway.
If you are honest, people may cheat you.
Be honest anyway.
If you find happiness, people may be jealous.
Be happy anyway.
The good you do today may be forgotten tomorrow.
Do good anyway.
Give the world the best you have and it may never be enough. Give your best anyway.
For you see, in the end, it is between you and God.
It was never between you and them anyway.”
― Mother Teresa
Forgive them anyway.
If you are kind, people may accuse you of ulterior motives.
Be kind anyway.
If you are honest, people may cheat you.
Be honest anyway.
If you find happiness, people may be jealous.
Be happy anyway.
The good you do today may be forgotten tomorrow.
Do good anyway.
Give the world the best you have and it may never be enough. Give your best anyway.
For you see, in the end, it is between you and God.
It was never between you and them anyway.”
― Mother Teresa
Keep looking at where you are on the Emotional Guidance scale and look at what you are attracting and if it is all good, then keep moving forward.
Kathy Hadley
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Kathy, this is EXACTLY what I needed to hear today. Thank you so much!
ReplyDeleteI love it when that happens, Jocelyn!!! Have a great day!!!
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Kathy
I really like the powerful words by Mother Teresa. Each time I read them they remind me how I am meant to live my life. I have experienced as you put the need to "allow" others to move away. At times I have foudn it difficult and yet each time it has been for the best. Thanks for the reminder! Best Regards, Wendy UBC
ReplyDeleteI agree Wendy, some times it is a challenge, yet, it is always for the best.
DeleteLove them and wish them the best but allow them to fade away. I leave the door open and would allow them back, too, however, I've found that rare.
These words of Mother Teresa really do help.
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Thanks for commenting.
Kathy
Amazing words! I feel more positive already!
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Kathy