The one underlying thing that keeps most people from changing enough to actually attract what it is that they are wanting in their life is lack of self awareness.
But don't beat yourself up about it.
We all suffer from lack of self awareness in some field or another, otherwise, we'd be, do and have everything we want.
And, by the way, talking endlessly about your problems is NOT an example of self awareness.
As a matter of fact, it is generally just the opposite.
If you don't believe me, look at these examples:
Hoarders have gotten a lot of attention on TV lately and have you seen the number of hoarders who when asked what they see they say something like "well, it can be tidied up a bit."
OMG! Tidied up! It is a big pile of dusty, moldy, junk and trash! You see, they are not AWARE of how it really is when they look right at it or talk about it to others.
Or the very overweight person who says "I just can't lose weight and I hardly eat anything." When everyone else watches as they constantly shovel food in their mouths.
Or the drama queen (or king) who has to tell and re-tell every negative event from their whole
day over and over again in great detail and yet wonders why their life is so bad.
Or the person who wastefully spends all their money, has nothing really to show for it and yet, has no idea why they can't pay their bills.
Those are all extreme examples, I admit, (and many of these people need extreme help) but we all do this to some degree.
You see, self awareness is more than just "head knowledge". It is when you "KNOW".
When you realize something. You have an "ah-ha" moment.
Like I said, if we didn't, we'd all be, do and have all we want right now.
How will you know when you've increased your own self awareness on some area?
You will know because things become easy to improve.
So, how do we become more self aware.
One way is by raising your dominant vibration.
As you raise in vibration, naturally, your awareness will also raise.
By doing all the things I mention in these posts and in my daily email coaching, you will begin the shift upwards.
And if you still need help, you may have to get the help of someone outside of you who can see that which you cannot.
I suggest you use an objective professional and not a friend or relative as those people are too close and generally will only cause upset. Also, if you use a non-professional, you run the risk of just having more of their issues projected into your own situation which will help neither of you.
It is SO worth doing.
You can begin to create the life you always wanted.
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