Thursday, April 25, 2013

Are You Really Ready For A Better Life???

Habits, habits, habits. 

We are all stuck in habits. 
Even the habits that keep us in the life we
DO NOT want. 

These habits of talking, thinking and feeling unwanted emotions are unconscious to us. 

In my circle of friends, I am rarely in situations where people complain or have anything negative as a topic of conversation. 

However, once in a while, I am attending some event where there are people who only speak of such negative things.   If you watch any television, that is basically all you see.

It goes back to the Hee Haw post ---"if it weren't for bad luck, I'd have no luck at all."----it would seem with these people. 

I can see ways that I could help them but I generally don't offer help or advice directly to someone unless they ask for it because otherwise, they just get annoyed. 

However, knowing I am a Life Coach, many people, even in social settings DO ask me for help. 

And I can immediately tell if they are actually READY for a solution and here is how: 

They will actually see how this may work for them AND they DO it! 

However, almost every time in this type of situation, upon receiving my suggestions, the person will tell me how they have tried that or done this and indeed, it did not work. 
Or they know people who have done it and it doesn't work. 
These are the people who are NOT ready for a solution no matter what they say or no matter how miserable their life is. 

Argue for your limitations, and you get to keep them.  

You certainly CAN change your life and it can start right now. 

The first step is to decide that you really want a solution and will do something different starting now to make a change. 

It is insanity to keep doing the same things and expect different results.
Kathy Hadley
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  1. great post your life is yours, take control!

  2. This is so true: whether you think you can or you cannot, you are right, isn't it?

    Thanks so much for bringing awareness, Kathy!