Are You Being Your Authentic Self?

You hear people say "be your authentic self" and you might think yes, I am, but are you really?

Over the years, I’ve had different friends and associates tell me I was “authentic” and that was one of the things they liked and admired about me. I always appreciated what they said as a nice compliment and went about my business. 

A friend that I met on Twitter, Tom Ziglar, (son of Zig Ziglar) and I started chatting years ago and he said that a large part of what he learned about success from his father was to be authentic and he gave me that great compliment in my twitter stream.

The other day, a very good friend whom I now hear from only once a month or so called me because something happened in his life. 

It's Just Like Popping Popcorn

"Have you noticed how long it takes popcorn to start popping?

But when it gets going, it really gets going.

And what started out as a few small kernels seems to multiply so much that it fills the pot and forces the lid off.

There is a lesson we can learn from popping popcorn:

Persistence leads to progress.

Progress leads to momentum.

Momentum leads to tangible results.

So get going...and blow the lid off!"

~Clifton Anderson

Most of the work of popping popcorn happens at the beginning when there are really no apparent signs of anything happening.

If you didn't already know that by just letting the popcorn pop longer it would become what you want, you would probably stop it and decide it didn't work.

But you do know, so you keep the heat on or keep the microwave going and let the popcorn pop to completion.

This is how life works.

You start something and don't immediately see any results so start thinking that the Law of Attraction really isn't working for you.

But if you knew that it most definitely was working, you would keep doing what you are doing and wait for those last few seconds when it all manifests.

That is how it works. So keep desiring what you want, take any action you are inspired to take, believe and
expect it to happen and in the last moments if well manifest.

Kathy

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How To Use EFT Technique For Health, Wealth, Weight Loss & To Improve Any Situation

Emotional Freedom Technique (EFT) is a technique that is used and highly recommended by top doctors such as Dr. Mercola and Dr. Deepak Chopra plus many others.

It is a technique that has been used by many people to successfully eliminate known and buried traumas, past emotions, and it has even helped people eliminate physical symptoms.

I personally know of many people who have had great success using EFT and I myself use it frequently for anything and everything.


There are people who spend thousands of dollars and hundreds of hours to go to trainings, self help programs and "camps" to improve themselves and although some have gotten results, many do not or they get lesser results than they had hoped and have to go back for more.

EFT is very easy to learn and once learned, can be done by the individual any time and anywhere.  It only takes a few minutes at a time and can be used for anything.

Here are the simple instructions for doing the short version of EFT:

Do You Know What Is Holding You Back?

The steps to applying the Law of Attraction to your life are simple:

1) You ask.

2) You are given. (This is not your work.)

3) You believe and thus allow it to come to you.

(This is were most still don't have it.)

Allowing your good to come to you is the most important step and yet most people are not aware of all the resistance they have.

The Original Secret

Many people think they "know" "The Secret", Unfortunately, very few actually do.

How can you find out if you actually "know" it? Well, to really know The Secret, you have to fully understand it and the only way anyone fully understands anything is to have experience with it. Even if you have had some success in applying The Secret, find out how to take it even further.

Are We Addicted To Our Emotions And Conditions?

Law of Attraction simply states "Like attracts like."

Law of Deliberate Intention states "That which we put our dominant attention on we attract, that which we put our dominant attention on with strong emotion, we attract faster."

These laws do not distinguish between whether the thing you are giving your attention to and feeling emotions about are wanted or unwanted.

You would think, that someone who is constantly sick or always needing more money could apply the Laws of the Universe deliberately once they know them, but that is not always the case.

There is also the Law of Allowing which states I can receive or allow that which I want and allow all others whatever they want too.

Not allowing, not believing, having doubts, having mis-emotions about other people's choices causes resistance and dis-allows manifestation.

But what would cause us to "dis-allow" that which we so strongly want?

Could we be "addicted" to our emotions and conditions?

Change Your Perception, Change Your Life

Many years ago, a large American shoe company sent two sales representatives out to different parts of the Australian outback to see if they could drum up some business among the Aborigines. Some time later, the company received telegrams from both agents.

The first said, "No business here . . . natives don't wear shoes."

The second one said, "Great opportunity here . . . natives don't wear shoes!"
(John M. Capozzi)

The above quote illustrates how it is all preception. Change your perception, change your life.
We all know these type of stories and quotes and they ring true to us when we read or hear them, but how can it really have a measurable positive impact on your life.

One simple step is to write down everyday perceptions you have about yourself, your situation or anything and actively think of it differently, better, more in alignment with what you want.

Do this consistently every day for a month.

Try it and see what happens.

Kathy

http://www.joyfulsuccessstore.com/loa

Happy St. Valentine's Day - How Can the Love We Feel For Others Help Us?

This is St. Valentine's Day in the US. 

The history of this day is not clear and different stories abound.

What it has become in the US is a day where people celebrate with the ones they love with gifts of flowers, chocolates, jewelry and dinners out with champagne.

It is great to acknowledge love.  Love is a very high vibration. 

So revel in it.  Really celebrate today and let all those you love know it.

This feeling of love can be used today and everyday to keep us in a higher vibration and thus attract more things to love.

Attention to anything attracts it to us.  Attention with great emotion attracts it to us faster.

Love is a great emotion.  Express your love today and enjoy the day.

Express your love and gratitude as much everyday with sincere emotion and have a great life!

Happy St. Valentine's Day,

Kathy

http://www.joyfulsuccessstore.com.loa/

How To Improve When Everything Is Going Wrong

Fill your day with appreciate.

Fill your day with seeing things a bit better than they are.

Even if only 1 thing in millions of things going on in your life is good or something to be grateful for, spend more time thinking about that one thing than all the other.

You may not believe you can get from a terrible situation to a perfect one, but by putting attention as often as possible on what is already good, you attract more good.

Practice this as you go about your day.

The better it gets the better it gets.

Here is to you having a better and better life,

Kathy

For more information, read my E-book:

http://www.joyfulsuccessstore.com/loa

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Practical Help to Manifest the Life You Want

You hear a lot about Law of Attraction (LOA) these days and I think that is wonderful.  People are actually learning more about how the Universe actually operates so that they can play this "Game of Life" more deliberately.

Personally, I enjoy applying LOA more and more deliberately and constantly to have the life I want daily in all things small and large.

I have also been blessed to be able to help so many other people improve their own lives.

Along the way, I've been encouraged by many to write a book on LOA with my own practical, results driven slant on it.

After a lot of encouragment and asking from many friends and coaching clients, I did write an E-Book on How to Manifest Your Dreams.

I covered all the basics that I most frequently get asked about:

• Money
• Relationships
• Career
• Health

How to improve these and any areas of life with measurable improvements.

I hope you like it.  More importantly, I look forward to you manifesting a better and better life for yourself.

Law of Attraction E-Book

How Can I Make Law of Attraction Work For Me?

I have written about the answer to that question before. I and thousands of others have answered this so many times before it still amazes me that the question is being asked.


However, I know, if there is still an “asking” going on, then there must still be something about this whole concept of Law of Attraction (LOA) that people do not understand or can’t seem to come into alignment with.

But before I get to the solution that I may have for this, let me digress a moment…

Not To Miss Event with Hemal Radia Law of Attraction in Las Vegas

I met Hemal Radia on the social network Twitter and we have had a great time discussing Law of Attraction in our own lives and the lives of those we have helped.

Now, he is coming over from London to present his wisdom first hand.

I highly recommend you make this part of your journey to a bigger, better life!

Here is a bit more about Hemal and the event:

Don't Have All You Want - Just Look In The Mirror!

I can understand it may be very difficult to believe that we create our own realities by what we think and put a lot of attention on.

However, believe it or not, it's true.

I see evidence of this every single day.

I see it in my own life and all around me.

SO, if you don't have everything you want, just look in the mirror.

The only person who creates in your own universe is YOU!

Counting Your Blessings

I was just doing my normal daily routine as always and as always, I start out and end each day with a prayer, meditation, I call it “my workshop” about all that I’m grateful for and intending for my future.

Today isn’t particularly different than other days.

Actually, I live a very blessed life and I’m very, very grateful for it.

However, just a moment ago, I noticed so much good in my life to be grateful about, I thought I should take a moment to write it down and share it with you.

The Basic Universal Laws - Law of Attraction by Abraham-Hicks

Here are the audio clips I suggest from the http://www.abraham-hicks.com/ site.

I recommend you listen to these very often if you want to create the life you want deliberately as soon as you possibly can by shifting your vibration.

They are very brief and explain the basic Laws of Attraction, Deliberate Creation and Allowing and how to use them to have the life you want.

Law of Attraction 4 minute audio

How? How? How? How? Do I get what I want?

How? The answer is so simple most people just can't accept it. I'll tell you how a little further along. First let's look at another great Abraham-Hicks quote:

“You could stand here sick with ten illnesses today, and tomorrow have no evidence of any of them. Your body has the ability to replenish itself that fast. But most of you do not have the ability to change your thoughts that fast. So the amount of time that it takes between sickness and wellness is only the amount of time that it takes for me to figure out how to let it in -- for me to figure out how to feel good, when I'm looking at something that makes me feel bad.”
--- Abraham
Excerpted from the workshop in Atlanta, GA on Saturday, November 4th, 2000 #207

Good quote. The interesting thing is this applies to everything; money, relationships, business, everything you want. You are either looking at what is and telling that story and getting more of what is or you are gradually stating a belief of a new story of what you want.

Are you deliberately creating your life?

I have been asked probably thousands of times the same question: "How can I get Law of Attraction to work for me?"

The answer from me and everyone else who understands Universal Laws knows the answer is this:

"Law of Attraction is constantly working every moment of every day bringing you more of that which you but your attention on. You don't have to MAKE IT WORKS. It just is working."

As Abraham says, the reason that question keeps getting asked is because the answer is not satisfying to the majority of people.

Today is September 09, 2009 - 09 09 09

For many people there is a great significance in today's date

being 09-09-09.

For me, of course, that is fine.

I personally believe what Neal Donald Walsh states in his book "Conversations With God":

"Nothing has a meaning until you give it one."

If someone gives today a meaning and in doing that it brings them joy, I'm in alignment with it.

Videos on YouTube from Abraham-Hicks

Basically, anything you need to know to learn, understand and apply the Law of Attraction can be found in the Abraham-Hicks YouTube videos, their books and audios.

I highly recommend that you get this information direct from source.

I will be posting inspirational messages here, however, I am not taking on people to personal life coach any longer.

Enjoy the videos and remember, you and you alone create your life.

Learn how to do it deliberately and not by default with the help of Abraham-Hicks and many other great writers.

A Rose by Any Other Name.....

Like most people, I have many people in my life; family, friends, business associates, acquaintances, etc. and I have always been very interested in people. I find all the differences and life stories of people fascinating.

I also find personal joy and happiness in helping people.

Anyone who knows me well knows the things I say often. One of those things is....even though some people may use different words, they could be saying the same thing.

Personally, I don't get too attached or concerned with what words someone uses as long as I can understand the intention behind the words.

So when someone is talking to me about Universal Laws whether they are quoting some scripture, a book, a philosopher or anyone, I look for the similarities and the intention behind the words. More often than not the intentions are the same.

I use the "words" to describe my process of coaching as Law of Attraction, Law of Deliberate Creation (which is Law of Creation) and Law of Allowing.

You can find these same or similar concepts by other names. It all boils down to the same basic intention.

In my coaching, I'm all about results, not so much what your particular belief structure is or what you want to call something.

It's all OK with me as long as I'm in alignment with the heart and intention of it so that I can be joyful in our interactions.

So, just as "a rose by any other name will smell as sweet" ......a positive, beneficial to all, life philosophy that gets results is fine by me regardless of what you call it.