If you are old enough, you might remember the variety show, "Hee
Haw".
I thought of that show recently when observing some people apparently
talking about "good" things in life. I say "apparently" because for every one good thing they had to say they added on several problems and negatives that they have going on.
The reason it made me think of "Hee Haw" was because there was a comedy
skit in the show where these farm hands started by singing a song that went
like this:
"Gloom, despair and agony on me. Deep dark depression, excessive misery.
If it weren't for bad luck, I'd have no luck at all. Gloom, despair and agony
on me." (Play the video to hear it.)
Then one guy would start to tell a story to the other guys that was supposed
to be a good story but it always contained a lot of problems and negatives.
Then they would end the skit singing that same song again. This was comedy at
the time.
However, it isn't very comical when you are creating everything in your
life based on the continual stories you tell to everyone about every issue,
problem and situation that comes up in your life that is unwanted.
THAT IS HOW
YOU KEEP GETTING MORE UNWANTED THINGS!
So, although this may be funny when watching a show, it is NOT funny
manifesting problems in your life.
First, become aware of what you spend most of your time talking about.
First, become aware of what you spend most of your time talking about.
Then, STOP the doom, gloom, everything goes wrong, drama, drama, drama story
telling in your life.
If you really DO NOT have anything good to say, say nothing or better yet,
find good things to talk about.
Use some of the tips from my previous posts to help you.
Kathy Hadley
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http://kathyhadleylifecoach.com
If you want some more immediate help, get my Simple Law of Attraction Kit that comes with a short e-book and audio. I also highly recommend the Advanced Class as it contains some of the key things I use with my coaching clients.
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Or how people get competitive over whose had a harder life!
ReplyDeleteTamsin,
DeleteYes, that is unbelievable, isn't it???!!!
:-)
Thanks for commenting.
Kathy
http://kathyhadleylifecoach.com
Kathy,
ReplyDeleteI was having quite a day yesterday. Nothing was going right and I was in a tizzy. What do you suppose I got as a result of that???? LOL More things to be in a tizzy about.
Thank you for the reminder.
My pleasure. We all need reminders now and again.
Delete:-)
Kathy
I definitely think in terms of the good and the bad. Never really thought of it though your eyes. Good food for thought!
ReplyDeleteThanks. I hope it helps you.
DeleteAs you control your thoughts, you control and direct your life.
:-)
Kathy
Hi Kathy!
ReplyDeleteYay! I finally figured out that Safari & Blogger don't mix. That was the issue with leaving you a comment.
Anyway, great post. It's so true that our thoughts & words really do create our reality. There's nothing that can turn my day around faster than when I focus on all the good stuff going on in my life.
Glad we met via UBC. Cheers!
Shelli,
DeleteYes, it is so very apparent once you look at it.
Glad you figured out the difficulty you were having.
And I'm glad we "met" in the UBC, too.
:-)
Kathy
I appreciate this post. I try to remember to be positive - especially when it comes to kids. It takes at least 10 positives to eliminate a negative, and people who always complain about their kids don't realize how much damage they are doing. Keep writing!
ReplyDeleteThanks. Yes, with children it is very important as they really hold on to things.
DeleteBut actually, it is how every person is creating their life, too, even if they don't know it.
I will keep writing.
Thanks,
Kathy
Such good points, very clearly made. I've become much more aware of making negative comments, complaining etc - in the UK we complain about the weather all the time but I try and find something good or funny to say about it or just talk about something else! Not everyone understands but my life is better if it's not full of negativity!
ReplyDeleteHarriet,
DeleteKeep up the good work. The main thing is you are making your life better and it will keep getting better as you do more of this. Those around you will take note and follow along or will fade away harmoniously but either way, you can create your life the way YOU want.
:-)
Thanks,
Kathy