tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3408105165030846338.post2947602376295229202..comments2024-03-17T22:24:19.594-07:00Comments on Kathy Hadley - Life Coach: Drama, Drama, Drama!Kathy Hadleyhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/13279954740877979223noreply@blogger.comBlogger22125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3408105165030846338.post-63697134933066595922013-04-06T17:23:47.160-07:002013-04-06T17:23:47.160-07:00Robert,
I love it when that happens!
And I sta...Robert,<br /><br />I love it when that happens! <br /><br />And I started doing that years ago and eventually those people faded away harmoniously.<br /><br />Now, I'm mostly surrounded by very positive people.<br /><br />:-)<br /><br />Thanks for commenting.<br /><br />KathyKathy Hadleyhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/13279954740877979223noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3408105165030846338.post-35510764914098791732013-04-06T17:20:01.816-07:002013-04-06T17:20:01.816-07:00Talk about synchronicity! This is wonderful. I was...Talk about synchronicity! This is wonderful. I was just speaking with a friend about my decision to impose some healthy boundaries with another friend who seems to constantly wish to recruit others into intense drama. Very timely! :))) THANKSRobert Benonoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3408105165030846338.post-6836806944427214052013-04-06T16:57:08.974-07:002013-04-06T16:57:08.974-07:00MelAnn,
I know what you mean. I went 12 years wi...MelAnn,<br /><br />I know what you mean. I went 12 years without TV of any kind. I rarely watch it still now. It is toxic. You can also get so much more done. :-)<br /><br />So glad you love my post. I too love working with clients to help them first learn how the keep getting what they get and then helping them to change it so that they can then get what they want.<br /><br />:-)<br /><br />KathyKathy Hadleyhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/13279954740877979223noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3408105165030846338.post-48863528250762036102013-04-06T16:36:51.062-07:002013-04-06T16:36:51.062-07:00I don't watch tv at all - no cable or an anten...I don't watch tv at all - no cable or an antennae. I decided to stop inviting drama into my life. And the TV is toxic - even if you try to avoid certain shows - the commercials for the crap still get in. <br /><br />I encounter so many people who have so much drama in their life who say they "don't do drama" - and I am like, "Oh really?" however, I celebrate every single one of them who come to me as clients ready to ditch that baggage once and for all! Love your post today! MelAnnhttp://melannmorales.comnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3408105165030846338.post-76730696148589639392013-04-06T14:23:34.191-07:002013-04-06T14:23:34.191-07:00Marilyn,
I'm sure that is what it looks like ...Marilyn,<br /><br />I'm sure that is what it looks like because people really do create their own situations. Unfortunately, most of them don't know what they keep doing that does so.<br /><br />That is what I help people with.<br /><br />Thanks for commenting.<br /><br />KathyKathy Hadleyhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/13279954740877979223noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3408105165030846338.post-47599865742026841102013-04-06T14:21:43.149-07:002013-04-06T14:21:43.149-07:00Angie, I do too. it is not good for your mental, ...Angie, I do too. it is not good for your mental, physical or spiritual health as they are all connected.<br /><br />That is what I'm all about helping people to realize and change so that they can have a better life.<br /><br />Thanks for commenting.<br />KathyKathy Hadleyhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/13279954740877979223noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3408105165030846338.post-82507238868711694752013-04-06T14:18:09.744-07:002013-04-06T14:18:09.744-07:00I know people I swaer they wake up every morning a...I know people I swaer they wake up every morning and say hmm what drama can I do today. many create their own situations. Frankly it is annoying when people complain yet they are the ones who create it. Marilynhttp://www.goodyladygifts.comnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3408105165030846338.post-9555482211576143302013-04-06T14:11:49.436-07:002013-04-06T14:11:49.436-07:00Oy drama. I stay away from it as much as possible...Oy drama. I stay away from it as much as possible. I hate the reality TV housewives obsession that has taken over television. I do not want to see people break down like that. <br /><br />That junk (yes, it is complete 'junk') is not good for mental health...either watching it or participating in it.Angie Schaffer-von Scheffelheimhttp://www.thelittlejazzbaby.comnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3408105165030846338.post-13609931692161508322013-04-06T12:38:31.495-07:002013-04-06T12:38:31.495-07:00Gwynne,
I agree. I know that some people are addi...Gwynne,<br />I agree. I know that some people are addicted to their emotions including drama. That may be a new post on here come to think of it.<br /><br />I prefer my calm life. :-)<br /><br />KathyKathy Hadleyhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/13279954740877979223noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3408105165030846338.post-91501627385883115242013-04-06T12:36:07.287-07:002013-04-06T12:36:07.287-07:00I think some people are so addicted to drama that ...I think some people are so addicted to drama that they don't know what to do with themselves when it goes away! I know I certainly couldn't handle that much drama in my life. I can barely handle the drama I do have!Anonymoushttps://www.blogger.com/profile/06081733544885430884noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3408105165030846338.post-8301844004991178502013-04-06T12:23:19.728-07:002013-04-06T12:23:19.728-07:00Jonathan,
I hadn't thought of that. Or maybe,...Jonathan,<br />I hadn't thought of that. Or maybe, they have so many trouble, they like to see beautiful, successful, rich people having drama in their lives? Who knows for sure.<br /><br />I'm with you about watching older, better shows (if any at all.)<br /><br />Thanks for commenting.<br /><br />KathyKathy Hadleyhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/13279954740877979223noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3408105165030846338.post-64817480381874419592013-04-06T12:20:34.458-07:002013-04-06T12:20:34.458-07:00The bottom line is that most people's lives ar...The bottom line is that most people's lives are so boring - they look for "drama" elsewhere - in other people's lives. I avoid those shows and watch 1980's repeats on itv4 :-)jonathanhttp://www.sharp-end-training.co.uknoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3408105165030846338.post-55343606011131067322013-04-06T10:22:56.065-07:002013-04-06T10:22:56.065-07:00Linda,
The "reality" shows are totally ...Linda,<br /><br />The "reality" shows are totally UNREAL!<br /><br />I'm loving the Ultimate Blog Challenge, too. :-)<br /><br />KathyKathy Hadleyhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/13279954740877979223noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3408105165030846338.post-21643868148694386192013-04-06T10:22:05.129-07:002013-04-06T10:22:05.129-07:00Julia,
I agree with you. One easy way to calm you...Julia,<br />I agree with you. One easy way to calm your life down and to allow better things to be attracted to you is by stop watching negative TV, watching or reading any news and staying away from negative people.<br /><br />:-)<br /><br />KathyKathy Hadleyhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/13279954740877979223noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3408105165030846338.post-53887857969572543832013-04-06T10:06:21.001-07:002013-04-06T10:06:21.001-07:00So much for traditions, right? Some of those "...So much for traditions, right? Some of those "reality" shows seem outright unreal! ;-)<br /><br />Happy A-Z! Visiting from the Ultimate Blog Challenge FB group.<br /><br /><a href="http://workinginwords.blogspot.com/2013/04/flier-and-flyer-mixed-messages-and.html" rel="nofollow">Flier and flyer - Mixed messages and misused words from A to Z</a>LA Nickershttps://www.blogger.com/profile/14891624164014505323noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3408105165030846338.post-47557316072949145122013-04-06T09:57:08.572-07:002013-04-06T09:57:08.572-07:00The type of drama on those shows is such a waste o...The type of drama on those shows is such a waste of energy and so not creative or conducive to attracting anything but more drama. I turned off the television set a few months ago and haven't watched it since. It's made a huge difference in the way I feel everyday, I'm less stressed and have more time to focus on my business.Julia Neimanhttp://www.julianeiman.comnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3408105165030846338.post-40263637880099375232013-04-06T09:42:40.441-07:002013-04-06T09:42:40.441-07:00MamaRed,
I agree! It is SO NOT a representation ...MamaRed,<br /><br />I agree! It is SO NOT a representation of my life or the life of most the people I know. I hope that young people don't believe this is how it is.<br /><br />I agree about the history and documentary stuff and maybe a cooking or decorating show now and again. Minus any drama.<br /><br />:-)<br /><br />KathyKathy Hadleyhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/13279954740877979223noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3408105165030846338.post-28643892935388650082013-04-06T09:39:07.456-07:002013-04-06T09:39:07.456-07:00Oh, I can so get on a rant (you don't want me ...Oh, I can so get on a rant (you don't want me to get started, right?) when I turn on the TV and see all the shows about women especially that make us seem like every woman cares only for whether her hair is bigger than someone else's or her dress is the highlight of her day or .... fill in the blank. I do watch TV, and naturally pretty dramatic personality-wise AND those channels could take a hike and I wouldn't miss them. Much prefer my documentary and history stuff (or some of the things on HGTV).MamaRedhttp://mamaredknight.comnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3408105165030846338.post-45729082571817433442013-04-06T07:23:57.930-07:002013-04-06T07:23:57.930-07:00Harriet,
This is true. Nothing really has a mean...Harriet,<br /><br />This is true. Nothing really has a meaning until you give it one so if you can see what is happening and not get emotionally engaged or react badly, then you are more likely in control of your life. Also, those who are in control of their emotions and life generally do not attract so much drama in the first place.<br /><br />KathyKathy Hadleyhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/13279954740877979223noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3408105165030846338.post-73098134052009959572013-04-06T07:22:33.689-07:002013-04-06T07:22:33.689-07:00I agree and would love some great wholesome progra...I agree and would love some great wholesome programming to return. My hope is that most people DO NOT have this much drama in their life and if so, that they do something to change it. Life is so much better when you live in joy most of the time.<br /><br />KathyKathy Hadleyhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/13279954740877979223noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3408105165030846338.post-64496104149773313202013-04-06T07:18:06.725-07:002013-04-06T07:18:06.725-07:00Yes, what we focus on increases! My life is never ...Yes, what we focus on increases! My life is never boring (perhaps because I'm in it) but I choose to see things that just happen as interesting or exciting rather than dramatic and awful. It's all about perspective.Harriet Stackhttp://www.harrietstack.comnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3408105165030846338.post-11315080614121640552013-04-06T07:12:16.646-07:002013-04-06T07:12:16.646-07:00I loath those shows, I agree about the shows that ...I loath those shows, I agree about the shows that used to be on in the 8-'s when i was a kids they were good family shows no drama and they displayed good morals and family values, thats what we need now not some banshee screaming and shouting for the camera, reality tv is not reality its fake and they are getting a paycheck at the end of it thats something we need to remember - bring back the old shows i say lolAnonymousnoreply@blogger.com